Thursday, June 7, 2007
My honesty and Your honesty
ola people! i have been thinking about this for quite a while now. I think that i can be honest to someone else. But that honesty is not mutual. I keep on thinking that i must change myself. well, i believe the Golden rule and i tried to apply it everyday in my life. an example of honesty in my life that is not mutual is for example, if i say to a friend (they have to ask me first to give them my opinion) "oh that clothes doesnt suits u"...n when they say the same thing to me..i can feel the uneasiness inside of me.
But, i will ask someone if the things that i have said offends them in anyway, some of my friends say that my words are encouraging for them. i felt really honoured when theres anyone out there who really appreciate my honesty.
Sometime i cried when someone are being truly honest too me. i feel that they're playing with my self confidence big time. well depends, if they say like "banyaknye jerawat kat dahi kau tu"..i will seriously not get offended. But if they say things like "u can't do this, u can't do that, its wrong" and i know that they are just being honest...i will cry. i think what's wrong is me, not them. will they get offended if i say those things to them? maybe not. I havent reach that level where i can accept all of other people's opinion towards me.
So, whats next? well i have to say that i will have my limit in being honest. i will not lie. that is my principal. i will just say 'tak tau' and i know it will not happen overnight but i will try. and i will try to boost my friend's self confident by saying encouraging stuff like "u can do it! i know u". at the same time, i will try to accept more of other people's opinion towards me. how u might ask?..well i dont know..maybe u can give me ur opinion on how can i accept more of other people's crticsm on me.
i believe that human are not static, they can be better or worse, and i hope by changing this bad behaviour of mine i hope i can be a better person.
PS: No sarcasm involved in writing this article
But, i will ask someone if the things that i have said offends them in anyway, some of my friends say that my words are encouraging for them. i felt really honoured when theres anyone out there who really appreciate my honesty.
Sometime i cried when someone are being truly honest too me. i feel that they're playing with my self confidence big time. well depends, if they say like "banyaknye jerawat kat dahi kau tu"..i will seriously not get offended. But if they say things like "u can't do this, u can't do that, its wrong" and i know that they are just being honest...i will cry. i think what's wrong is me, not them. will they get offended if i say those things to them? maybe not. I havent reach that level where i can accept all of other people's opinion towards me.
So, whats next? well i have to say that i will have my limit in being honest. i will not lie. that is my principal. i will just say 'tak tau' and i know it will not happen overnight but i will try. and i will try to boost my friend's self confident by saying encouraging stuff like "u can do it! i know u". at the same time, i will try to accept more of other people's opinion towards me. how u might ask?..well i dont know..maybe u can give me ur opinion on how can i accept more of other people's crticsm on me.
i believe that human are not static, they can be better or worse, and i hope by changing this bad behaviour of mine i hope i can be a better person.
PS: No sarcasm involved in writing this article
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